Love and Like

Love and like

Everybody’s are confused with love and like…….

Love is not like. And vice versa. Both of these terms indicate different meanings. Love is a very beautiful feeling and it is the very pure and real. This love is a feeling to any special ones. And not feels to every person around us. But we feel like to anybody and to anything. This is a common emotion to the human being. But the depth of both feeling is very different. The biggest and happiest emotion in the world is love. Like also give happy. If anybody stands in front of your lover, then their heart beats faster. At the same time if anybody stands in front of the person you like, then you get only happy.

                                    Sometimes you felt the summer is winter when the time your fiancé come in front of you. But the same feel as summer when your friend came to you. You feel an extra blushing and shining in your face when you looking to your loved eyes. But the same person will have a cute smile when you looking to babies eyes and cheek. When your lover came in front of you accidently, then you will start sweating and get shying, and you never feel that. And you can’t speak anything more. But if your friend comes to you then you start speaking nonstop and laugh loudly. These variations occur due to the change in your emotions.

                                        So we can’t say that love is equal to like.  Most of all think about their loved ones in every hour and every minute. But the faces of the persons that you like will not come into your mind in every moment. When your loved one starts crying then your mind gets hurt a lot. At the end you will also start crying with them. But if the person you like start crying, you will starts to console him as your best. And you do any favor with your best. If your lover advise you about any matter. Then you simply obey that without any confusion. At the same time the advice is done by your friend or any other persons then you may have the tendency to reject that. And make him unhappy. But you never make unhappy to your lover. Everybody is more comfortable with their lover. And never suffice the time to spend with your lover. Sometimes we felt boring to spend time with the persons that we like. The feeling of lover starts from eyes. But the feeling of the persons that we like starts from ears.

                                       Love occupies in our soul. And the like occupies in mind. Liking is hoping that they experience the very best. But the love is when you bring them the very best. Liking a person is knowing that you will always try to be there when in needed. And love is when you will give up ever thing to be at their side. So we can conclude that love is very much greater feeling in the world rather than any other emotions.

Advantages and Disadvantages of Love

Advantages and disadvantages of love

Today most of the marriages are love marriage.  This love marriage has both good and bad effects. Actually love marriage is a legal right for two individuals who care and love for each other to live together and to preceding their life. But there is one fact that this love marriage occur in different ways. Some people prefer their life partner by seeing their internal beauty like behavior, character, rather than external factors. But some people choose their sidekick by perceiving some other factors like money beauty ect…….. But the truth is that the second type of relation never lasting. But the former type will never fail………….. Because true love never need beauty or money or any other prestige.

In this type of relations they have only advantages rather than disadvantages. … If we discuss about advantages then we can speak a lot of things about true love. The happiness that getting through the love is cant described by one or two words…. It is a feeling that can’t be expressed by terms or locution.

                                                             In love marriages the partners can know each other. So that they have not any confusions in making any decisions within them.  Almost in all those relationships they will take decisions together. Because of these attitude there will not occur any problems or issues. These all will make the relation pleasant.  In my view point the love marriages does make real after a long interval of knowing each other. This makes them more comfortable when they enter into their real life. But at the time of these intervals some of them hide their real face or character. For that type persons would suffer more problems when they enter into their life. So to avoid all those issues they become open minded persons when they are in love at the beginning. These open minded persons have no troubles with their partner to an extent.

                                                   Next case is if the persons are in love by desiring any other factors will suffer full of problems in their marriage life. Because they never love each other. Due to these lack of love is the major cause of love failure in relationships. In these relationships the love and care between them will ends when the former external factors fails or ends. From that moment the real war starts. Yes the love turns to a big fight…………….this is the most hurtful moments in those lives. To come back to their original life will take time. Because already their mind will die. When you attached with some other persons then your partner will shout to you. These all will makes the relation unhealthy…………if the love is true these type issues will not occur….. But here the situation is not fair. That is the difference between these two types of love marriages. So I have only one request. If you want a good and healthy relationship with your partner then you love him without any expectation. If the love you impart him is true then you will surely get back it with so much purity…… because love is true and love is god.

Or if you love anybody with lot of expectations or with a greedy mind then your life will waste.

 If the love is true it has only advantages. But this turns to disadvantages when the love is not true……

The most type of disadvantage is hesitation. If your partner has hesitation at any moment, then your life starts died. Because the foundation of any type relations especially in love is trust. If it lose then the strength of that relation also decreases. So everybody in love will take care about the trust that you made with your partner. I think this is the only disadvantage of love. Because if trust fails, the relation also fails. All other problems except hesitation will be managed. But this injury will not cure by love or medicine. I think there are disadvantages. But all that are cured……………. So we can conclude that love marriages have more advantages than disadvantages. The term I used here is true love……that comes from bottom of the heart………that is the purest type…………

Disadvantages of Love

Disadvantages of love

Everybody knows that what love…..is, it is not described by words. We simply saying that is a feeling of mind. In this article I want to tell about the disadvantage of love. In the real love there are no more disadvantages. It has only advantages. But if the love is not true then there are a lot of disadvantages. One of the important effects of love occurs due to lack of knowing her personality. Sometimes the partner never tries to understand. This will make so many issues between them... the better understanding make every relationship stronger and sharper. This may occur due to so many tensions or any other problems. If a man or women fall in love accidently due to some external beauty or for seeing their financial aspects, in that type relations they doesn’t even know a single quality that possessed by him or her. He love only due to her beauty, or smart looking and charming but it is important to realize that everybody has a dark sides also…….. So that there is a big possibility to that her dark side makes him disappointed. These dark sides may be lying behavior, or drug addicted or having some hesitation ect………..                                                                                        

                                               

  The second disadvantage is concern that has since our childhood days, at that time may be we have some puppy love affairs. This may be as a infatuations or a psychologically natural likeness for an opposite sex, which may influence their life to an extent. Almost this may occur at the age of 15 to 25. After all these the person enter into a real life then the actual problems will starts….. Because the person starts to compare the character of her partner and the lover that she had…. If she felt any satisfaction then the situation turns to bad…. If the above problems are very common to us…..and the next effect is if the person doesn’t tell her past to her husband and unfortunately if the husband heard all those her past then he falls to a great disease that is called” hesitation”. Then the husband starts questioning and so on………………then the problems starts and their life go to hell…..

The next issue that may occur is due to the lack of maturity of two minds. The maturity of a person is measured on a mental scale. If a person behaves in a well manner then the crushes between them become less. But most of all people will not behave in such a manner. And the persons try to blame each other for simple reasons. These all make a relation unhealthy….why they can’t be matured??????  Before a relation starts the partners should study the behavior each other… this will makes every relation pleasant….and keep try to open minded…this helps that the person to predict the reaction of their partner when a particular issues will occur in between them. But In the new generation haven’t try to make time for spending with their partner. I think all the disadvantages of love will occur due to the persons doesn’t make their mind open to their partners. So that they can’t able to know the behavior and thoughts of their partner completely.  There is a theory that says “love is complicated, so it needs more maturity and time to understand it.” If the partners have the mind for sharing and caring then the love will not turns to war. Otherwise the problems will arise. Lack of caring and sharing is one of the major causes of love failure.

But nobody never understands these all and never tries to correct it and never try to lead a successful life.

Adjustment is the next factor that related to this. Actually what is adjustment????? Example: if your partner doesn’t like that you smoke. So if you let it, then the interrogation will end. If you don’t stop your smoking and you still keep that job then your life partner starts to disseminate. This makes you unhappy and may the crushes will starts. Yes this is what I mean the term adjustment.  The term adjustment has a great importance in love relationships. Because love and adjustment is directly proportional. If the persons that never give any importance to this adjustment in their life then they will suffer a lot. Without any adjustments there is no love…………….

 Because love means adjustment. And love means caring and sharing. Without all these the relation never exists. Now I conclude that the love at the first sight is a challenge for those who are bored with true love.

Advantages and Disadvantages of Love

Advantages and disadvantages of love

Love is the most wonderful feeling in the world. At the same time the love has the both advantages and disadvantages. At the time of love the pares only see the advantages only. But after the marriage the persons shows their actual faces of their character.  From the time of love they starts with a lot of dreams and happiness….but at some time the same persons will starts  hating each other…what is the reason behind this????? Can you guess???? Yes we all know there are a lot of reasons behind this….

Let us discuss about the advantages of love. First of all, I have to tell that relationships can motive you to be a better person, if you have someone to care about and who cares about you, you won’t be lonely, you will be able to give and receive love and affection, you will have someone around who can help you. That makes all the human beings   happy. But at the same time the disadvantage of love is that makes add drama to your life, you lose your privacy, and you lose freedom and lose your power to make important decisions in your life. Because he or she largely depends on the partners commitment to each other. since love marriage is a choice of particular persons. They have a strong and longer bond between those couples. Those persons have a lot of advantages. They have the freedom of choosing their partners. So they are only responsible for the consequences that are good or bad in their marriage life. In love marriages the partners who knew all the good and bad habits of each other. So they are willing to adjust it respectively.  So they are well prepared to overcome the future conflicts in between them. Or they know how to manage it in better deal. In love marriages there is no compulsion of love. Because that feeling come into a person automatically without any external compulsion. So that there exist a well perfect bond between them, and hence it is the secret of their stability in their relationships. The factor behind the love is not only the physical appearance. But also the basic character of a person also. The top most disseminate of love is sex. but the new generation have no such thoughts….they find love through physical relationships…..such type of love will not have such an elasticity….they are only infatuations’…..and not the true love…. The real love marriage helps in bridging the gaps of cast, religion ect…..

                                           If the love is true then we have only advantages rather than disadvantage. You know one thing????  Love is a disease that makes you fall frequently head over heels for somebody…. If you keep thinking about a particular person then that particular person felt that a graceful feeling so that it may cause keep doing that……….. The partners feel secure at the time of loving. And they will understand each other……because they never want to lose their partner.

But at the same time it makes some emotional problems, some misunderstandings and may occur some cheatings also…..sometimes love create a lot of pains to our mind…..if the partner felt any hesitation at any time then the problems will starts….. but I hope that true love never fails……which increase the power of that relationship day by day….

If there are things you still don’t like, which would call a “disadvantage” then you talk about with your partner and find a way to keep both of you happy. so we simply say that we can managing the disadvantages.

Love and Emotion

Love and Emotion

Love is one of the major human emotions such as anger, hapiness which is mostly influenced by biological drives. We express and experience this emotion by our personal concepts. Love is a feeling that we can’t described, we can only feel it. It’s about caring someone and never wanting to lose them. The person who loves someone then they will constantly think about them, because they are completely comfortable with that person. Love has blind eyes and this love is a small word which shows a lot of meanings. Love is one of the magical phenomenons. It is a connection between two hearts. It makes a bond which never ever broken. Love will take the heart and soul to that particular person’s life. When two people love each other then they do anything and everything to keep them happy. If you are fall in love you do things for them before you do things for yourself. This is the true meaning of love.

                              Love is sacrifice and forgiving for the one we love. Actually we can’t explain what is love because it is a wonderful feeling between two heats………..even though we can say love is blind, it is like a rosary that full of mystery. Love is a thing which is easy to hear but difficult to feel. The soul of our life is LOVE. Which imparts a great feel for him or her love mean everything. For a living thing haven’t exist without love….because it is the nature of earth.

                                          There is a special day in every year for celebrating love each other. That is the one and only VALANTINES DAY. The real love is not to feel lonely even if you are alone. It makes your life meaningful, stronger and happier. Without love the life is boring and sad……..Love is the affection of two persons that make the world to a better place like heaven. When you love someone deeply you will call the name of that person from your heart and sometimes make you lose your concentration. Love is knowing all about a particular person and still wanting to be with him more than with any other person. Love is trusting a person more than anybody and wants to share all the matters about yourself…………

                                         If anybody falls in love then we can see a lot of changes in their way of life style. They will walk slowly while with that person. They will try to find extra times for spending with that person. They will realize they are always smiling when they are thinking about them. They are willing to do anything for their lover.

                                     There is more hunger for love than food in this world…….because love has the capability to have the patience. Gravitation is not responsible for falling a person in love. Love start with a smile grows with kiss and ends with tears. Love is one of the important factors for having the happiness in life. Love is sweet….your heart beat will increase and you will feel shy with him. Which makes the affection strong and personal attachment…it representing kindness, compromising and sacrifice…only true love will exist constantly…so love is like a sweet butterfly it goes where it pleases and it pleases wherever it goes and that is the meaning of LOVE

Love

Love

Love is the most wonderful feeling in the world. At the same time the love has the both advantages and disadvantages. At the time of love the pares only see the advantages only. But after the marriage the persons shows their actual faces of their character.  From the time of love they starts with a lot of dreams and happiness….but at some time the same persons will starts  hating each other…what is the reason behind this????? Can you guess???? Yes we all know there are a lot of reasons behind this….

Let us discuss about the advantages of love. First of all, I have to tell that relationships can motive you to be a better person, if you have someone to care about and who cares about you, you won’t be lonely, you will be able to give and receive love and affection, you will have someone around who can help you. That makes all the human beings   happy. But at the same time the disadvantage of love is that makes add drama to your life, you lose your privacy, and you lose freedom and lose your power to make important decisions in your life. Because he or she largely depends on the partners commitment to each other. since love marriage is a choice of particular persons. They have a strong and longer bond between those couples. Those persons have a lot of advantages. They have the freedom of choosing their partners. So they are only responsible for the consequences that are good or bad in their marriage life. In love marriages the partners who knew all the good and bad habits of each other. So they are willing to adjust it respectively.  So they are well prepared to overcome the future conflicts in between them. Or they know how to manage it in better deal. In love marriages there is no compulsion of love. Because that feeling come into a person automatically without any external compulsion. So that there exist a well perfect bond between them, and hence it is the secret of their stability in their relationships. The factor behind the love is not only the physical appearance. But also the basic character of a person also. The top most disseminate of love is sex. but the new generation have no such thoughts….they find love through physical relationships…..such type of love will not have such an elasticity….they are only infatuations’…..and not the true love…. The real love marriage helps in bridging the gaps of cast, religion etc…..

                                           If the love is true then we have only advantages rather than disadvantage. You know one thing????  Love is a disease that makes you fall frequently head over heels for somebody…. If you keep thinking about a particular person then that particular person felt that a graceful feeling so that it may cause keep doing that……….. The partners feel secure at the time of loving. And they will understand each other……because they never want to lose their partner.

But at the same time it makes some emotional problems, some misunderstandings and may occur some cheatings also…..sometimes love create a lot of pains to our mind…..if the partner felt any hesitation at any time then the problems will starts….. But I hope that true love never fails……which increase the power of that relationship day by day….

If there are things you still don’t like, which would call a “disadvantage” then you talk about with your partner and find a way to keep both of you happy. So we simply say that we can manage the disadvantages.