Disadvantages of love
Everybody knows that what love…..is, it is not described by words. We simply saying that is a feeling of mind. In this article I want to tell about the disadvantage of love. In the real love there are no more disadvantages. It has only advantages. But if the love is not true then there are a lot of disadvantages. One of the important effects of love occurs due to lack of knowing her personality. Sometimes the partner never tries to understand. This will make so many issues between them... the better understanding make every relationship stronger and sharper. This may occur due to so many tensions or any other problems. If a man or women fall in love accidently due to some external beauty or for seeing their financial aspects, in that type relations they doesn’t even know a single quality that possessed by him or her. He love only due to her beauty, or smart looking and charming but it is important to realize that everybody has a dark sides also…….. So that there is a big possibility to that her dark side makes him disappointed. These dark sides may be lying behavior, or drug addicted or having some hesitation ect………..
The second disadvantage is concern that has since our childhood days, at that time may be we have some puppy love affairs. This may be as a infatuations or a psychologically natural likeness for an opposite sex, which may influence their life to an extent. Almost this may occur at the age of 15 to 25. After all these the person enter into a real life then the actual problems will starts….. Because the person starts to compare the character of her partner and the lover that she had…. If she felt any satisfaction then the situation turns to bad…. If the above problems are very common to us…..and the next effect is if the person doesn’t tell her past to her husband and unfortunately if the husband heard all those her past then he falls to a great disease that is called” hesitation”. Then the husband starts questioning and so on………………then the problems starts and their life go to hell…..
The next issue that may occur is due to the lack of maturity of two minds. The maturity of a person is measured on a mental scale. If a person behaves in a well manner then the crushes between them become less. But most of all people will not behave in such a manner. And the persons try to blame each other for simple reasons. These all make a relation unhealthy….why they can’t be matured?????? Before a relation starts the partners should study the behavior each other… this will makes every relation pleasant….and keep try to open minded…this helps that the person to predict the reaction of their partner when a particular issues will occur in between them. But In the new generation haven’t try to make time for spending with their partner. I think all the disadvantages of love will occur due to the persons doesn’t make their mind open to their partners. So that they can’t able to know the behavior and thoughts of their partner completely. There is a theory that says “love is complicated, so it needs more maturity and time to understand it.” If the partners have the mind for sharing and caring then the love will not turns to war. Otherwise the problems will arise. Lack of caring and sharing is one of the major causes of love failure.
But nobody never understands these all and never tries to correct it and never try to lead a successful life.
Adjustment is the next factor that related to this. Actually what is adjustment????? Example: if your partner doesn’t like that you smoke. So if you let it, then the interrogation will end. If you don’t stop your smoking and you still keep that job then your life partner starts to disseminate. This makes you unhappy and may the crushes will starts. Yes this is what I mean the term adjustment. The term adjustment has a great importance in love relationships. Because love and adjustment is directly proportional. If the persons that never give any importance to this adjustment in their life then they will suffer a lot. Without any adjustments there is no love…………….
Because love means adjustment. And love means caring and sharing. Without all these the relation never exists. Now I conclude that the love at the first sight is a challenge for those who are bored with true love.
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